Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Can you hear me, hear my thoughts, hear my desires?
Finally some time to blog. Had a stayover with FVUK (cn's idea heh) over at her house. Hmmm watched 2 movies and can never forget the gay scenes of "Blades of Glory"? Had macs and instant noodles in the middle of the night. We forgot about our jellies!!!! Hahaha, had fun catching up and talking nonsense as always..
Sunday was a big torture. I was terribly sick and I had to finish up BCS excel? Excel was killing me bit by bit. Horrible I say. Glad its all over now and we shall all move on to... Dreamweaver? Jesus. Monday, fell asleep during OB lect, it was so boring! The lecturer was like so so so so boring, skipped econs' lect to finish up geog and am crashing econs tmrw. Tuesday, today, sch ended early because Ms Lenny didn't came for class! So finished up tutorial work, off for lunch and satisfied Wanting's sudden craving. Sorry about your loss my dear :( Please cheer up though I know its not easy :(
Please.let.me.recover.by.thursday.cause.i.wanna.countdownnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. Sigh.
I want to share a story Yiqi once told me about which I find it fantastic. Here I go:One day, a professor asked his students this, "Why do we SHOUT instead of speak when we are ANGRY?"
All students thought for a while. Then one said, "Because we lost our cool. That's why we SHOUT"
The professor asked again, "But the person is just right next to you, why can't we talk softly but have to SHOUT?"
Everyone gave their opinions but none was accepted by the professor.
Lastly explained by the professor, "When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart. To mask the distance we felt, we instinctively SHOUT instead of speak so the other party can hear us."
"But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we drift apart further. So we SHOUT even louder...."
"It is the opposite when we are in love. Not only do we shout, we even whisper into each other ears. Why?"
"This is because our hearts are very close, almost never apart. As our love deepen, we reached a state of communication where there is no need for words. We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look", concluded the professor.
Therefore, when we are arguing, do not speak words that will make our hearts drift apart. Wait for a few days. And when your hearts are no longer apart, pick up the conversation and continue from there.
Meaningful isn't it? Me like. Haha. 2009 is coming to an end in about 2days' time. 2009 has been a great and not-so-great year. Please let 2010 be more than awesome. Maybe it is also time for some resolutions. Sigh. Time for medicine. BYE!
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